There comes a time where talking to someone can go in one of two directions. The first being something to more than just a friendship, something such as a relationship that could blossom into something beautiful, or something that is not a relationship. However, before any of that can happen there needs to be a mutual understanding and conversation about that is going on in each others head.
This is the most meaningful part of the development of a relationship or not in my opinion. Whether you’re a boy or a girl, you need to be honest with the person. If you aren’t feeling something, let it be known. If you aren’t available to talk, tell that person you cant talk for awhile. What ever you are feeling, you need to tell the person you are talking to. Don’t just leave them in the dark, don’t come up with lame ass excuses and most importantly don’t lie to them. Too many times have I seen and heard stories of people being led on, lied to and put too much effort and time into someone who is just dragging them on because they are too selfish or too scared to open their mouth and say what is on their mind. Don’t say you’re not talking to someone else when you clearly are, don’t being someone else down with you when you cant come to terms with yourself and simply express your feelings to the other person.
You dont need to disappear for weeks or days at a time and not talk to that person, if you really had any interest you would make time for someone, even if it is 5 minutes. Just tell that person, it really makes things better to know, than to not know. As much as you might think it’ll hurt that person, it will actually make it better in the long run. And if you’re going to ignore someone, at least get off your social media sites where you are clearly active or just have enough gall and dignity to tell the person you aren’t interested anymore or aren’t in the mood to talk to them.
/endrant. Sorry for it, I’m just tired of being ran through the ringer so many times.
Liars are pathetic. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.